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I was reading the "devastating diagnosis" post, and wow... does that bring back a lot of painful memories. We had our oldest son evaluated at the CDSA, too. We went in thinking they were just being overly cautious. We had gotten a referral there by our pediatrician when our son was 13 months old because he wasn't talking or pointing. After the long eval, I actually went back all by myself with my son to get the results. He was given "DD-NOS" (they left off the P) - and I remember holding it together through the entire meeting. But, driving home was a different story. I could barely see through the tears. The stack of informational papers about PDD-NOS and autism at my side. When I got home and my husband eventually arrived from work, he asked casually how it went. I just burst into tears again. After explaining everything - he said they were crazy. Our son was just fine. Lots of 1 year olds don't talk.

Well, fast forward and my son is now 4.5 years old. He was re-diagnosed with autism at around 3 and has an IEP. He didn't talk until he was 3.5. Over time, we realized that this was not a bad dream, this was not over zealous diagnostics. This was our life. It's been a long hard road - and the pain never goes away. It just gets a little easier to deal with over time.

I have 2 kids at the CDC. It's a wonderful school - and your son is sure to make tremendous gains. We also see Dr. Harum in Wilmington and follow a biomedical approach to his treatment as well. My middle son is the same age as yours - but I don't recognize him, so he must be in a different class. My son Garrett is in classroom 3. He was born 5/2/06. Perhaps they will be classmates next year!

You have a beautiful son, and I know that you are still reeling from the shock. If it's of any comfort to you, I have read through your blog and watched the little video, and he is so much farther along than my oldest son was at his age. PDD-NOS is better than autism. And, he very well may grow out of the diagnosis. Many PDD-NOS kids do.

If you ever want to chat, compare notes or just vent to someone who understands COMPLETELY what you are going through... I am here.

thereiderfamily@mac.com

Hugs,

Sara






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